How We Lose Ourselves

Confirmation Bias Got My Brother-in-Law Lost in the Wilderness: How To Cope

We all hold prejudices of some kind, but the way we maintain these is telling. A person will attend to data that supports ideas he or she believes to be true, while ignoring evidence to the contrary. We’re perhaps most familiar with this in political discourse, but it intrudes on virtually every corner of human interactions.

Psychologists call it confirmation bias, and when my normally level-headed brother-in-law got caught in its trap a few years ago, the consequences could have been deadly.

In August 2010, I was backpacking with my brothers-in-law Ken …

All Roads From Phoenix Lead to San Diego

The California Coast Has Always Been Part Of Phoenician History-and Mine

Long before the Interstate 8 connected Arizona and San Diego, there was the Old Plank Road. The name is what it sounds like. Wooden planks provided cars with a way …

South of the Border

Pedro, the Whimsical Landmark Between the Carolinas

I left my cell phone back in Tucson, my favorite top in Barcelona, and my bathing suit in Boca Raton. My spare socks are in Durham, but the rest of …

Planting L.A. Seeds in Phoenix

Whichever Way I’m Driving on I-10, I’m Heading Home

My aunt Marta asks, When are you coming back home?

She means Los Angeles: Long Beach, Lynwood, Lakewood, Norwalk, Azusa. L.A. County. She even means Orange County. “Nuestra Señora La Reina …

Iron Butt Glory

The Riders Who Are Home on the Road

They live to ride. Perhaps they have been infected by some rare germ that makes them motorcycle thousands of miles in a matter of days–the kind of distances that leave …

Mind the Gap

Put College on the Waiting List

Get in. Get out. That’s my advice to high school seniors: get in to college, then get out of your comfort zone.

My Los Angeles high school was the quintessential pressure …